Archive - 2009

The Opinion That Matters Most

One of Aesop’s Fables tells about an old man traveling to town with his grandson and a donkey.  The grandfather put his young grandson on the donkey until he heard people say, “Look at that selfish child making that old man walk!”

The grandfather couldn’t stand to have people criticize his grandson, so he asked the boy to walk while he rode. Then he heard people say, “Look at that selfish old man riding and making the poor little child walk.” So he got off and they both walked.

Then he heard people say, “Look at those stupid two people.  They’ve got a donkey, and they’re not even using it.”  So both the man and the boy rode together.

Then they heard the people say, “Look at those cruel people abusing that poor animal!  They’re going to break his back with that load!”  They finally walked into town carrying the donkey.

One of my resolutions for 2010 is to be, by God’s grace,  much less concerned about the opinions of people and more concerned with God’s opinion about how I am living my life.

Another Christmas Story

(Adapted from an account written by Tom Stewart, Dec. 20, 2001)

One of America’s best known poets, Henry Wadsowrth Longfellow, contributed to the wealth of carols sung each Christmas season, when he composed the words to “I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day” on December 25, 1864.  The carol was originally a poem, “Christmas Bells,” containing seven stanzas.  Two stanzas were omitted, which contained references to the Civil War, thus giving us the carol in its present form.  The poem gave birth to the carol “I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day,” and the remaining five stanzas were slightly rearranged in 1872 by John Baptiste Calkin, who also gave us the memorable tune.

When Longfellow penned the words to his poem, America was still months away from Lee’s surrender to Grant at Appomattox, and his poem reflected the prior years of the war’s despair, while ending with a confident hope of triumphant peace.

As with many compositions that touch the heart of the hearer, “I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day” flowed from the experience of Longfellow, involving the tragic death of his wife Fanny and the crippling injury of his son Charles from war wounds.  Henry married Frances Appleton on July 13, 1843, and they settled down in Cambridge, Mass.  They were blessed with the birth of their first child, Charles, on June 9, 1844, and eventually the Longfellow household numbered five children:  Charles, Earnest, Alice, Edith, and Allegra.

Tragedy struck both the nation and the Longfellow family in 1861.  Confederate Gen. Pierre G. T. Beauregard fired the opening salvos of the Civil War on April 12, and Fanny Longfellow was fatally burned in an accident in the library of their home on July 10.

The day before the accident, Fanny Longfellow recorded in her journal:  “We are all sighing for the good sea breeze instead of this stifling land one filled with dust.  Poor Allegra is very droopy with the heat, and Edie has to get her hair in a net to free her neck from the weight.”

After trimming some of seven year old Edith’s beautiful curls, Fanny decided to preserve the clippings in sealing wax.  Melting a bar of sealing wax with a candle, a few drops fell unnoticed upon her dress.  The longed for sea breeze gusted through the window, igniting Fanny’s dress, immediately wrapping her in flames.  In her attempt to protect Edith and Allegra, Fanny ran to Henry’s study, where Henry frantically attempted to extinguish the flames with a rug.  Failing to stop the fire with the rug, Henry tried to smother the flames by throwing his arms around Frances, severely burning his face, arms, and hands.  Fanny Longfellow died the next morning.  Too ill from his burns and grief, Henry did not attend her funeral.

The first Christmas after Fanny’s death, Longfellow wrote, “How inexpressibly sad are all holidays.”  A year after the incident, he wrote, “I can make no record of these days.  Better leave them wrapped in silence.  Perhaps someday God will give me peace.”  Longfellow’s journal entry for December 25, 1862 reads:  “‘A merry Christmas,’ say the children, but that is no more for me.”

Almost a year later, Longfellow received word that his oldest son, Charles, a lieutenant in the Potomac army, had suffered a severe spinal injury when a bullet passed under his shoulder blades into his spine.  The Christmas of 1863 was silent in Longfellow’s journal.

Finally, on Christmas Day of 1864, he wrote the words of the poem, “Christmas Bells.”  The reelection of Abraham Lincoln or the possible end of the terrible war may have been the occasion for the poem.  Lt. Charles Longfellow did not die that Christmas, but lived.  So, contrary to popular belief, the occasion of writing that much-loved carol was not due to Charles’ death.

Longfellow’s Christmas Bells loudly proclaimed, “God is not dead.”  Even more, the bells announced, “Nor doth He sleep.”  God’s Truth, Power, and Justice are affirmed, when Longfellow wrote:  “The wrong shall fail, the right prevail.”  The message that the Living God is a God of Peace is proclaimed in the close of the carol:  “Of peace on earth, good will to men.”

Here is the poem that later became the song, “I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day.”

“Christmas Bells,” by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

I heard the bells on Christmas Day
Their old, familiar carols play,
And wild and sweet
The words repeat
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!

And thought how, as the day had come,
The belfries of all Christendom
Had rolled along
The unbroken song
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!

Till ringing, singing on its way,
The world revolved from night to day,
A voice, a chime,
A chant sublime
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!

Then from each black, accursed mouth
The cannon thundered in the South,
And with the sound
The carols drowned
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!

It was as if an earthquake rent
The hearth-stones of a continent,
And made forlorn
The households born
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!

And in despair I bowed my head;
“There is no peace on earth,” I said;
“For hate is strong,
And mocks the song
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!”

Then pealed the bells more loud and deep:
“God is not dead, nor doth He sleep;
The Wrong shall fail,
The Right prevail,
With peace on earth, good-will to men.”

Surviving the Holidays

We are in the final countdown to Christmas.  Have you finished your Christmas shopping?  If not, you are not alone – 40% of folks have not.  You still have time!  And the experts say retailers will be slashing prices as we get closer, so maybe this year your procrastination will pay off!!

Strangely, Christmas can often put us in a funk.  Do you feel let down or even depressed after Christmas?  Many people do.

As we approach the final week of the Christmas season, here are a few things to remember to avoid the holiday blues:

  1. Don’t make it more than it is. Don’t get me wrong – the birth of Christ is huge! But we add too high expectations to everything by looking for some magical feeling or a Norman Rockwell kind of family gathering.  When we don’t get the feeling or have the perfect gathering, we’re bummed.  The reality is that our families are flawed, and no Christmas can compete with the “Walton’s“ or “Little House on the Praire” Christmas.
  2. Focus on giving – not just gifts, but of yourself. We can become disappointed because we didn’t like our gifts or because family members didn’t make us happy – we didn’t get what we wanted in one way or another.  This can put us in the tank. Approach this week with no expectations except to be a blessing to others.
  3. Find a Christmas ministry project. Is there a family in need you and your family could bless? Could you volunteer your time at a ministry? Maybe the Crazy Love campaign could be a focus of your family’s giving.  There are many things and/or ways you could do this.
  4. Get some exercise. Go for a walk – keep moving.  Exercise is great stress relief.
  5. Though part of the fun is eating, pace yourself.
  6. Don’t spend money you don’t have. It will only increase your anxiety.
  7. Keep a biblical perspective. Christmas is about the unfolding of God’s plan of redemption.  It’s not just about a manger, but also a cross and an empty tomb. Every day is Christmas for Christ-followers.  The message of Christmas transcends any certain time of the year.
  8. Keep this in mind: The spirit of Christmas is giving, the message of Christmas is “Jesus Saves,” and the proper response to Christmas is worship!

Christmas Eve
Join us on Christmas Eve for a carol and candlelight service – click here for service times for each campus.

Great Response to Crazy Love Offering #2!

We had a tremendous response on Sunday to our second Crazy Love offering! We have reached 70% of our goal.

Read more here about the impact of Offering #2.

If you haven’t given yet you can do so the next two Sundays or you can give on-line here.

Keep praying for Crazy Love and your involvement.  God is up to something big time!  I can’t wait to see all He is going to do in us and through us during the Crazy Love Campaign!

A Bonus Christmas Song Story

Below is an excerpt from a message by John MacArthur in which he gives some background on Christina Rosetti, the author of the Christmas Hymn “In The Bleak Midwinter.”  The last verse of the song brings us back to the most important spiritual issue – the affection of our heart.

One of my favorite poets of the nineteenth century is Christina Rosetti, who lived from 1830 to 1894. Christina was the daughter of Italian immigrants, a woman of great beauty, it is said, striking beauty. A woman of immense poetic talent, a devout Christian once engaged to a Roman Catholic who promised to convert. When he had second thoughts, she broke the engagement and remained single all her life. Through that life, she wrote some of the most magnificent poetry, all of it a tribute to Christ. She wrote this poem, and it was set to music twelve years after her death. “In the bleak midwinter, frosty wind made moan, earth stood hard as iron, water like a stone. Snow had fallen, snow on snow, snow on snow in the bleak midwinter long ago. Our God, heaven cannot hold Him, nor earth sustain. Heaven and earth shall flee away when He comes to reign. In the bleak midwinter a stable place sufficed, the Lord God Almighty, Jesus Christ. Angels and archangels may have gathered there, cherubim and seraphim throng the air, but His mother only in her maiden bliss worshiped the beloved with a kiss.” Then she ends with this great, great stanza, “What can I give Him, poor as I am? If I were a shepherd I’d give Him a lamb. If I were a wise man I’d do my part, but what can I give Him? Give my heart.” That’s worship.  -John MacArthur

And the lyrics to the song…

“In the Bleak Midwinter”
Lyrics by Christina G. Rossetti, 1830-1894
Music by Gustav Holst, 1874-1934

In the bleak midwinter, frost wind made moan,
Earth stood hard as iron, water like a stone;
Snow had fallen, snow on snow, snow on snow,
In the bleak midwinter, long ago
Our God, heaven cannot hold him, nor earth sustain;
Heaven and earth shall flee away when he comes to reign.
In the bleak midwinter a stable place sufficed
The Lord God Almighty, Jesus Christ.

Enough for Him, Whom cherubim, worship night and day,
Breastful of milk, and a mangerful of hay;
Enough for Him, Whom angels fall before,
The ox and ass and camel which adore.

Angels and archangels may have gathered there,
Cherubim and seraphim thronged the air;
But his mother only, in her maiden bliss,
Worshiped the beloved with a kiss.

What can I give him, poor as I am?
If I were a shepherd, I would bring a lamb;
If I were a Wise Man, I would do my part;

Yet what I can I give him: give my heart.

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